One of my favorite quotes from a modern fiction writer (ND Wilson) is “our feelings are liars”. Feelings speak to us about the world around us. I’ve found this idea that “our feelings are liars” to be true in so many situations, whether it’s my own feelings, those of my wife, or children, those of […]
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Dig Deep and Assume Nothing, Communication at its Finest
We often don’t know people as well as we think we do. And that doesn’t mean we don’t love them. To Know Someone How do you know someone? Observation and communication. Observation can reveal some very helpful things about a person, but communication is the only way to peek into the inner life of a […]
Dear Hesitant Christian Girl,
We make things more complicated and stressful than they need to be, am I right? I have a lovely young Christian friend who claims one day to be full of contentedness in her singleness and doesn’t want to be married at all-maybe ever, to the next day is stunned to realize that she is actually […]
8 Questions For The Single Christian Man To Confront
You’re single. It may not be your fault. The cultural structure for romance is miserable and the women you’re trying to date might be misguided. BUT, you might be the reason you are single. Besides, you are certainly the reason you won’t be the husband you need to be! Here’s the admonition (butt kicking) you […]
Christian Single Ladies: Quit Wasting Time and Get Married
I’ve had the misfortune of watching many male friends and relatives date / court Christian girls and continually hit the same brick wall again and again. It manifests itself in several ways but when it comes down to it there is an unwillingness for Christian women to be bold and take the next step. This […]